I’ve recently been in a discussion about #disabilityinchurch. While of course there will always be room for improvement, I’m so thankful for how sensitive the churches we’ve most recently attended have been.
What I’ve seen? Good sound systems, hearing assistance devices, or t-coils. . . And the seniors in church joking with me about my “old man hearing aids.”
I’ve seen plenty of large print bulletins and large print Bibles–not just on one side of the sanctuary to pick up if you need one, but placed in every pew. I’ve seen requests in the bulletin to avoid wearing heavy perfume.
I’ve seen assistance, ramps, and drop off points for those with limited mobility.
I’ve seen coaching from the Sunday school leaders how to help engage all the kids, when illiteracy is a factor. . . working hard so that no kid is embarrassed by that. Encouraging teachers to deal with disruptions gently, because those disruptions are often masking invisible disabilities.
I’ve seen dishes at potlucks clearly labelled for people who have dietary limitations — and people being conscientious to bring a variety of foods so all can participate in the meal.
Pastors being transparent about mental health struggles, and pointing to good sources of counseling, community, and medication. Communion being offered with both grape juice and wine; regular and gluten free bread.
Pastors saying, “Please stand, as you are able.” Pastors not showing any signs of distraction when kids/adults can’t sit still throughout the service.
I am sure that were our family more directly impacted by various abilities, I would be more aware of what could be done or is already being done. I know that I have blind spots. I am thankful for the sensitivity and inclusion that I’ve experienced in our churches in Bahamas, Florida, and DC.
I know that many people and families still experience barriers in churches. I know there are struggles to get to church for corporate worship, challenges to be part of the daily life of the church. I see people with disabilities having to go the extra mile to participate — and I wish we all in the church would be better at going the extra mile instead.
I can’t imagine a church or environment with no barriers for people with disabilities. But I can imagine growth in relating to one another as brothers and sisters in the Lord regardless of abilities, and working together to minister side by side.
Elseweb, a friend commented: “Jesus is used to people being carried in to be healed by Him. Maybe the difficulties in access are in fact being used to bring the able-bodied into His presence as they carry in (or improve access for) those who aren’t? If all the access problems are solved, the disabled, who have other problems besides access, might be assumed to be able to go it alone. God’s ways are mysterious.”
Among other things, this discussion on
#disabilityinchurch is a reminder to me of our complete dependence on God, and our interdependence with our brothers and sisters in Christ.